how I’ve decided to have a blog

The idea of having a blog came to me long time ago, but the decision of starting it I took when I divorced. I hate so much that man and I want to shout loudly all the bad things he had made me. Normally, I believe in solving the problems by yourself, with your family, but, when there is a risk of getting suffocating, when you are in that moment when you don’t trust anyone and anything, you think it’s better to tell others. I’ve decided to be an anonymous person, it’s better for the moment. Obviously, most of you will know my identity when I will send links and read my articles. This is want I want because in other case the category “The Deceased”, will be nonsense. About me Generally I am an understanding person and pacifist. I accept many things, I overlook a lot of things, some

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why cocktailantistress?

Because, as I wrote in the article how to chose a name for your blog, I want to write about everything, a cocktail of subjects concerning what bothers me, what makes me happy or hysterical. I have the impression that, when I am writing, I can unburden my soul, I calm down, I share with you my joys and troubles, so this means anti-stress. Because I am thinking that you enjoy what you read, you can discover that you are not the only one who has problems or unpleasant experiences. This could be an anti-stress for you too. Cocktail because I will write stories, epigrams, dialogues, opinions about music, people, me and my friends, enemies, colleagues, neighbours, etc. I will laugh with you, I will cry, I will talk civilized or using curses, I will tell you good and bad jokes, I will be here with you, listening your opinions.

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How to choose a name for your blog?

It’s very, very difficult. First attempt to find a name for my blog… The first choice was “punctedevedere“ (points of view). The idea was to write about everything, life experience, opinions about all kind of staff or about persons. That title seemed very good for me, maybe a little journalistic, but it had been already used by someone else. Following the same idea I thought “ punctedevederelavedere” (points of view on sight), but it is too long for a blog title. Then, I chose “coolsirecul” (cool and recoil) but I had two problems, it didn’t look good and the word “recul” (recoil) according to DEX represents a movement back and it didn’t represent my character, it didn’t seem cool for me. A gave up. Another title “regireginesivagine” (queens kings and vaginas) but I hadn’t enough courage to use it, it seemed excellent for me, but I didn’t want to be

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